As I mature, I realized I no longer have the patience for
not-so-great kind of relationships or friendships. I used to stay around to prove my
loyalty up to a point of ignoring warning signs or red flags. But instead of
doing more good than harm, these relationships became toxic and untrustworthy. I
ended up feeling drained soon after.
These days, I am able to manage my expectations very well.
So excellent… that sometimes, I no longer remember what happened. Probably my
mind chose to forget instead of cultivating hatred. That is good, I think. Or is
it really that good?
But what should you do when people chose to walk away from us without any good reason? If they left us wondering what went wrong, how should we handle it?
